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writes:Hi, wrote a couple of days ago that i feel like my relationship with my long distance b/f is going to end. All i wanted was for him to come live here... The thing is i just realised what i was asking him to do. I know that sound odd but I asked myself the same questions and came up with the same answers as him. How could i not see how hard i was making it for him and how much he was trying to come here? I feel so stupid and so harsh. He loves me, of course he wants to come here. But i also mentioned that one day he'll probably have an arranged marriage and that won't go away. I still feel it may be a bit hopeless but I really want to go see him. Now i understand fully, I want to go see him and talk to him face to face. But still, if this is the end should i? Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): Hi love,
To sort these feelings out maybe going to see him will once and for all put your mind at rest, If the relationship is over at least you no you have come to this understanding, and realise some of the things you were asking him as you say are hard for him. Its not always easy to realise when you want something so badly that you may be pushing for it a little to hard, but my love by the sounds of things you have worked alot out and grown from this experience so hun dont beat yourself up everyday we learn a little more thats what life is all about i think you have done really well and it doesnt sound odd at all. Take care and i hope things work out for you xxxx
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