A
female
age
30-35,
*ove-him
writes:well i just tried to post this question but aparantly it wasn't clear enough!Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year on the 1st of July. I think it is important that you celebrate being together for a year (im 16, my boyfriend is 20). i think it is special but my boyfriend thinks otherwise. My question is.. what do you think, male n females.. should we celebrate?? i mean ive spoken to my mum about it and she said it shouldnt have to include money (im fine with that) ive made him a card but i said to my boyfriend.. ive made u sumfin maybe i could make u a meal and his responce was.. i dont see a point in it, stop going on about it =S .. hope you can help =] x x x
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reader, vickiii07 +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hey
Peoples ways of celebrating things are different perhaps he doesnt want a big fuss.
I know i wouldnt like a big fuss. But a year is pretty big.
Talk to him about say to him well it may not be important to you but it is for me so for me can we du something together ? It doesnt have to be something huge
Just a meal and a card.
If you are having sex why dont you make it a night to remember?
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (15 June 2007):
love-him is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks.. but ive tried to talk to him and he jsut wont listen.. every time i bring it up he says shut the *uck up or leave it...or it doesnt matter.. and i dont see anything else i can do.. i thaught i knew what i could do/say to turn him round but turns out i dont... more answers if poss =\ x x x
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reader, nologo  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I agree with you, becaurse you are right.
We should celebrate all important events.
You see, something good does not happen everyday in our lives.
And that is the idea of Holiday: you make it "something good".
"it is special but my boyfriend thinks otherwise" - Override.
Change his mind! What is his method of reception of energies?
I am sure you know what can bring your boyfriend back to life.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (15 June 2007):
 i think its a great idea. i know that when i was in a relationship for 2 years each annverisary we would celebrate it. i think its got to do with the age gap. don't get me wrong i don't see nothing with age difference but he could be thinking your being childish.
so what i would advise you to do is ask why he doesn't think its a big deal.
goodluck
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