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writes:This is the deal. My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. She told me that she wanted to have space but was willing to be my friend, which I thought was insane. Anyway, I didn't speak with her for about a while. She text me out of the blue and said she missed me so we went out and have been going out about 2-3 times a week since. One night we were in the movie theater and a female I have been dating called and she saw her name on my caller ID. Since then she has been referring to her passively yet aggressively when she said that we could date other people. She cooked me dinner about two days ago and when I said I was leaving she mentioned the other girl again. Whenever she hugs me its never a regular hug. She holds on to me for a long time. I want to kiss her but can't take the rejection. We text each other every day and have plans to go out Friday. I love her very much and think she is the most beaustiful thing I've ever seen. We were together for 7 years before the break up. My question is should I tell her how I feel or is she just making me her "pass the time guy" until she finds someone she really likes.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 She left you once, and she will do it again. She needed "space"? Bull. If you want to make her a fuck buddy, go ahead, but do not even think for one second that if you go out with her again, those issues of the past will not come back and haunt you.
You say you are dating, but I gather from the email that you are not sleeping together, becuase you are afraid to be rejected for a KISS? You dated for 7 YEARS! You are dating again, but not kissing? What the hell are you two doing together them?
What she looks like is MEANINGLESS. What she treats you like is what counts.
Yes, I think she is using you for comfort. She will dump you as soon as someone she is fucking sticks around to date her long term.
Move on now.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I think you should tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants as its not fair to either of you or the other girl the situation that is playing out. If she says she doesn't want to be with you then she has to back off with the hugging and sniping about the other girl.
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