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36-40,
*evenlova
writes:Before i started to have sex i use to sneak this guy in and he would lay wit me until i fell asleep. He went off for college but would sleep toegther all the time wen he came for vacations now he is back to live and had a girl but they broke up.We slept together all during this relationship that just went sour.Do u think he would consider me to be his girl or will it always be just sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): Thanks so much for giving me your views on my question. I have tried the withdrawal thing and i get sick.I have told him how i feel about him and the situation many times and he has said i should relax.I honestly dont think that if we were together that i could trust him but letting go is soo hard.
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female
reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Hi there babes,
Have you ever told him how you feel about him?
Can you honestly say babes that you could trust this man when he slept with you whilst he had another girlfriend, that would worry me if I were you..
Us girls always like the bad guys don't we when we are young, but would you honestly hand on heart trust him if you did strike up a relationship? if the answer is no then find a nice guy who will love and treat you with the respect you deserve..I hope it all turns out well for you babes but be honest with yourself first...
Love Donna x
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reader, Have a greater life +, writes (14 June 2007):
You could find out by being a very busy when he calls and wants to see you (have sex with you ) say Im so busy ,I can have coffee with you sorry ......meet him for coffee/drink dont invite him round to your place or you will be tempted to let him stay . Then have coffee spend 20 mins talk,laugh,look amazing, and take your leave !! That way youve established just verbal communication ,Im sure he will call again (DO NOT CALL HIM..MAKE HIM HUNGRY FOR YOU ) when he does,, say again Your busy but could maybe be free for a couple of hours your hungry would dinner be okay..go eat,look fab,enjoy the company ,but go home to sleep alone, This will grow if not you will know ,then its your decision to remain his booty call or not ,you need not close the door but you can be busy !! checking out someone new !
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