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*mma_Australila_1983
writes: I live in a houseshare with a another girl. We have lived together for about a year. We used to get along really well but then she got a boyfriend. They fight nearly every weekend but she's adamant that she's happy and she loves him. Even when I hear their fighting and ask her if she's ok the next day she makes up some funny story about it. The thing is, she's turned really really nasty towards me now. She's moving out with her boyfriend (they've been going out 6 months) and now she is treating me like absolute crap. She's short with me, when I try to talk to her she listens but pulls a pissed off face and she has her friend come over and they completely ignore me. COMPLETELY IGNORE ME. I can't wait for her to move out because I'm keeping the house and having someone really cool to move in. The thing is how do I deal with this in the meantime. I've tried talking honestly to her but she swears "everything is ok and she's not being like that" but it's her attitude that makes the difference you know? And her attitude is getting worse. I've tried making myself scarce but I need to be able to relax in my own home. I dopn't know what to do...I'm at my wits end....
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reader, Variety +, writes (14 June 2007):
Ignore her. Don't ask her about the fights and just get on with your life. Chat about neutral things if you are hanging out together. She is being a bitch for no reason and you can distance yourself from it. Message me if you want to chat. xx
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