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writes: Hi there,I have been seeing a guy for probably about over a month. I have slept in the the same bed with him but we have only kissed as I like him and don't want to rush things. We are in our mid 20's. I don't live really close to him so we usually see each other at the weekends currently.He has not asked me to see him this weekend yet and I really want to see him shall I ask him what he is up to or is that seeming desperate? I have the impression he may think I don't fancy him much as I have done no more than kiss him. Is there any harm in asking if would like to do something? Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): I don't see any harm. He might just be shy or as you point out he might not think you like him in that way. Guys ask gals out all the time and it has nothing to do with desperation. Better a definite yes or no than worry about how he might feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): I don't see any reason why you can't invite him out this weekend (unless he has already asked you by now), so long as you can be light and casual about it. Ask him if he'd like to go to a ballgame, or concert, whatever activities you both like, and see what he says. Maybe it would be a good idea to have a back-up plan in your own mind for something you'd like to do either on your own or with friends, so you'll have something to take the edge off any disappointment, just in case he says he's busy. In other words, don't make seeing him the be-all and end-all of your existence this weekend!
Good luck!
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