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*mandalee
writes:a friend of my has been emailing my boyfriend whom I've been with for 18months. i sort of blame myself because on my boyfriends birthday(April)i told her to email(gave her his email add) him just to surprise him.i wanted to test her and see if she'd email immediately and she did( well i had a feeling she had a crush on him due to the things she said about him and her actions(which were not that clear). so since than she never emailed him again until now.Shes been emailing him(pass on emails about God and other things) and she never tells me. my boyfriend is always the one telling me about her emails. i only gave her permission for his birthday although i didn't say it was only for that day but i feel she has no right to do that. i might be paranoid but i sense something!i wont confront her until i find more evidence but will only tell when we get together with all my friends and their boyfriends(this weekend,next friday and Camp-july). will judge by her actions and more... Do u think i'm crazy?please help me...in need of ur help.oh and shes very quiet amongst my other friends boyfriends but with mine she gets very weird and loud.at the moment shes the only one without a boyfriend(shes still looking).I've only known her since November last year so i don't really know her true colors that much but she acts sort of quiet around us and when we went to my best friends party in March she was so loud we didn't recognise her. shes two years older than me and same age as my boyfriend(22)besides that she very nice and sweet.please help???...
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (14 June 2007):
 What a cow sounds like she is taking full advantage of your good nature you were completly trusting of her and now she is stabbing you in the back, however due to the fact your boyfriend keeps you informed of any contact that she makes i don't think you have much to worry about, personally i would try having a word with her and just let her know she is stepping on your toes and you don't like it or failing that ask if your boyfriend could try talking to her he could let her know that there is no chance of a relationship and he just wants to be friends.
Take care.xx.
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