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writes:I keep doubting my decision. My BF whom I just ended it for a 2nd time in a year was lying to me, or so I think but he is telling me I'm crazy. He works with a married woman who he would frequently talk about. I put it out of my head as nothing. Then, in the last 2 months he started talking badly about her but I had been noticing things like lots of email from her on his PC at night, late night calls after i would leave, within about 20 minutes. Calls on Saturday night. Telling me he was too busy during the day for lunch but met her. Claiming he didn't recoginize her # when I asked but yet he was dialing it back frequently. Stopped talking about marriage. Well, they both took a day off last week and he was unreachable. When I confronted him about everything he said i was nuts but I ended anyway as I had a strong gut feeling - not to mentioni he had lied to a few months back about a former girlfriend calling. Both woman at one time he claimed were misdials. Please tell me I did the right thing and I'm not a paranoid, jealous lunatic!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Hunny, NO! NO! NO!YOU ARE NOT PARANOID!!!!!!!!!!
And your not nuts and your not bloody crazy either.
You are on the ball you did the right thing... Pack all his stuff up and get him out your life for good.
Then have a party and pat yourself on the back...
He lied to you and then tryed to make you sound crazy YOUR WELL RID! take care of you lots of love n hugs :) xxxx
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reader, kuualoha +, writes (15 June 2007):
No your not paranoid...he's lied to a few women and just thinks he can get away with it. Hes a player and isn't interested in a full time commitment. You did the right thing by leaving him. Always trust your gut feelings. He's getting action from her sexually...thats why all the e mails and the secreacy ...he's gotten caught and men will lie if they can get a way with it. The right one will come along...and you wont have to feel stupid for asking these questions..to a man that loves and adores you....Only stay with men that want to be around you consistantly and like you and adore you...stay away from the bad boy types that have issues...they will never be happy and they will never make you happy. Stay away from the drama...and the fighting over the guy...drama...these guys enjoy the fighting over him since it makes his deflated ego feel better that two women are fighting over him....tell the other woman....I'd pick up the phone and have a woman to woman talk with her and say if you want my man...you can have him...he can come and live with you and you can keep him...pick up his clothes and you can have the jerk. The both of you can be jerks together and live happily ever after...as far as I'm concerned..the both of you belong together as cheaters...since you don't value your own relationships...then the both of you can cheat on each other. You tell her that you think " What kind of basis of relationship to meet someone when you were cheating on someone else? " Do ya think thats a basis of stability.? I think not.
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