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female
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anonymous
writes: My friends told me I should break up with my boyfriend and I couldn't do so I started to act clingy and annoying so he would dump me but in my heart I didn't want to do it. Our relationship was bad as we would argue so much we didn't know anything about each other. Yet in my heart it felt right. He did punch me and left me bruises but we just fooled around like that we would get in our fake fights. I guess my question is should I try and get him back? And if so how do I get him to want me again? We will still see eachother like everyday since we have the same friends and are in a group of friends that are always there for eachother it's like a pack we made all for one, one for all it's like a family of friends who are always there for eachother family first and we are a family. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): you need to check yourself you know
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reader, sunrise +, writes (9 July 2007):
Families dont hurt each other in that way nor do friends. You dont need that kind of relationship not now or ever. If you want to remain friends because he's in the group then fine but please dont let anyone treat you in that way ever again, no one deserves to have their feelings hurt let alone be left with bruises.
Take care of yourself and enjoy your life havin fun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): I'll leave the low self-esteem comments to others. However, let's look towards the future. Having all these fights is obviously unhealthy emotionally and mentally. Having him punch you and leaving you with bruises is obviously unhealthy to your emotions and your body. Now think - is this the type of husband you want in your life, and further than, is this the type of guy you want to be the father of your children?
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