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anonymous
writes:I have had a best guy friend for about two years now. Recently, we kissed and almost slept together. And at frist I freaked out.. we agreed we were just friends and it was a big mistake. Now this past week we have been acting as if we are together as a couple. Holding hands, cuddling, etc. I don't know what to do. I can't understand whether we like each other or we are just messing around and if it is ok.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (7 July 2007):
Maybe you should sit down and have a chat about how you feel about each other, you are after all adults now.
See if you both want to step it up and have a relationship.
You obviously have feelings for one another so why not take it to the next level.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): You should know your feelings for him already. If it doesn't bother you maybe is because you like it. I think you are confused because you are afraid your feelings for him will grow stronger and maybe from his part he is just fooling around. Answer? Talk, talk, talk to him. Ask him what he thinks about this turn in your relationship. If he is your best friend and/or your boyfriend you should have no problems asking him this.A lot of couples start being best friends. Why wouldn't it be OK? You've already broken "the rules" of friendship by going into a romantic relationship so I believe you two should enjoy it.If you are both not seeing anyone serious right now and believe you are willing to: risk your friendship, or better yet to stay friends after trying a romantic relationship, or much better yet be together for the rest of your lives I don't see what the problem is.
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