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writes:Me and my boyfriend are together for a month. But I am having a problem about him. It's because my boyfriend admited that he thinks his previous crush is cute and that he still likes her! And, I totally agree with him because his previous crush is slim, beautiful, pretty and all that! And, I feel like she has a better appearance than me. I want to avoid thinking of negative stuffs about them because I know this will break our relationship. My close friends tells me that I'm just jealous because my boyfriend and his previous crush were very sweet before. How can I stop being jealous and what should I do? I really hate being jealous of something!
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Looks aren't everything, maybe she did not have the personality to go with those looks as it's very rare that all these things come in a complete package.
He is with you and if he did not want to be he would walk away.
If you spend to much time dwelling on the past it will destroy your future, live for today.
Take care.xx.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 I think you should end it... If he has feelings for someone else and you are still together it's gonna get really rocky and ythere will be a lot of arguements ahead of you. For example - you'll wonder where he is, what he's up to all the time etc.
And that's not a nice place to be.
He shouldn't really, in all honesty, be with you if he has feelings for someone else because it's not fair on you.
If you honestly see a future ahead of you taht's clear of arguements and jealousy then carry on but to me it sounds a bit like a recipe for disaster.
Just my honest opinion lovely.
Take care.
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (8 July 2007):
 ok when he says he likes her is it just as a friend. Just think that you have guy friends right? well his ex is just a friend to him and they clearly broke up because their relationship wasnt going to work so you have nothing to worry about
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