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51-59,
*z Honey
writes:I been with him several years but he never buy me thing's it hurts my feeling that i want out what should I do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): hey i understand completely how you feel! ok so i am no where near 5 years or nethin but i have been dating this guy fro 2 months now! i realise he doesnt have much money and he works so hard to pay off his current debt however he always uses my car and never gives me petrol money! he wont even offer to pay for something as small as maccas and weneva he goes out he spends up 2 80 dollars and it HURTS!!!!! I FEEL LIKE I HAVE JUST GOTTEN A MASIVE SLAP IN THE FACE EVERY TIME!!! i do love him i really do but i cant stand his selfshness! he is 24 im 19 he needs to growup!!!!
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female
reader, Mz Honey +, writes (14 July 2007):
Mz Honey is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey Guy's
Thanks for your responds to my question. But I do buy him gifts all the time.And yes he do love me more then words can say.But he just don't think buying me a gift or two
should show me he loves me or thinking about me.I should know that he loves me because he comes home to me and the
kids every nite and he take care of us and pay all the bills
every month.You I can't work because of my injuries a few
years ago I fell at work and right after that I got hit by
a drunk driver and that left me disable for the rest of my life.So I'm home all day everyday doing nothing but cooking
cleaning and washing clothes while still taking care of our
kids.So when I bring of the fact that he don't buy me roses
or a card to show me he loves me !He think I'm just picking
at him because I'm bored or in pain.And that's what is driving me crazy am I just blind????
Should I be happy with the fact that he is taking care of
all the bills and doing all the major things around the
house but not the little things like also making sure that
I'm happy and I feel loved all the time like I do for him
and my kids everyday.He said he donot know what romance
means anymore since we are older and have kids.He feel like we have been together long enough and we love each other
enough that we don't need all that stuff in his words.
And I think every women want's to be suprise with a dozen
of long stem rose and a box of chocolates every once in a
while and not just on her b-day mothers day or a holiday.
I want it just because you love me and I had a hard day
at home.
Please help me am I wrong for wanting a gift every now and then????
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reader, sunrise  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Hi, why dont you buy him a gift, something small and inexpensive as a kind of hint. He may not be that sentimental or sensitive, some men aren't.
Do you feel he loves you? does he show it in other ways? if not sit down and tel him how hurt you feel and take it from there. Good luck x
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): Probably, he is a kind of guy who doesn't have experience or knowledge that giving a gift is one of many ways for expressing love or attention to others,'cause of his family background or other circumstances.So, it's ok though, as long as he love you that you can feel. You can buy things he like on certain occasions, eventually, he'll learn from you something new and wonderful to do.
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