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anonymous
writes:I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher. I'm 12 and he's in his 20s. It's been about a year since i started liking him. Everytime i see him he always says hi and asks how i am. I blush whenever he talks to me. My friends say that he's a perv but i don't believe them. He's very attractive i can't be blamed for liking him.Is it normal to have a crush on your teacher?
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (11 October 2007):
 It's normal but don't tell him or anyone else unless you want to be heavily embarassed.
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 It is perfectly normal to have a crush on a teacher - I had a crush on a my class tutor (But so did most of the guys in my year)
Just don't act on it and keep your fantasies in the bedroom and your diary if you keep one.
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reader, flyingskirt +, writes (8 July 2007):
it's quite normal to have a crush on your teacher. keep it to yourself and for pete's sake don't act on it!!! if you like the dangerous element of dating someone older, flirt with a boy who's 14 or 15. it's all in your vivid-12-year-old-imagination that he's interested by asking you how you're doing-- he's just being courteous and professional.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Its completely normal. Ive had crushes on teachers before, and theres nothing wrong with it.
Just dont act on it really.
Over time you'll get over it, trust me.
:)
Hope it works out okay. xxxx
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reader, penta +, writes (8 July 2007):
 If you care about him at all DO NOT act on your crush. Whether anything happens or not, you can ruin his career.
That said, yeah, it's pretty normal to have a crush on a teacher. Enjoy the fantasy, just make sure you keep it to yourself.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Yes, it is normal. There is nothing wrong with you. It isn't normal for an adult to become involved with a twelve-year old, though.
Are you sure his saying hello and asking how you are are anything but displays of the usual courtesy to students?
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