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writes:Hey, my name's Jack, I have a massive problem. I had a one night stand and I was totally drunk, I wasn't in control and ended up having unprotected sex (I can sorta remember that part), I don't think I "came" but then again I can't remember much of the night. I was really worried in the morning so I told her that I was worried and she said that there's no chance cuz of women's stuff, apparently it could've happened two weeks ago, but not now. I was still worried but I bought this. I looked it up thinking perhaps there's a chance that it can't have happened cuz it might've been before ovaluation or something.. I'm not sure to be honest, I need help..I need some reassurance.. If I did "cum" then what are the chances of her being pregnant during this time in the menstrual cycle?and if i didnt what are the chances? please reply, I can't be a father and I'm really worried. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying.. mind being called an idiot isn't what I like. I made a mistake, we're human, no? This place is for good advice not for pety insults.. I really do thank those giving me some good advice, made me calm down a lil at least about the situation :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 I think Dr. Pete has a point here. We should offer help, not criticize. Point taken, Dr.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): Why are you guys so judgemental towards this person?
Flower Girl is right and this girl you slept with is wrong. A girl can become pregnant on any day of her month. Having said that, if you didn't ejaculate then there is a much lower chance that she could be pregnant.
I would be inclined to say she probably isn't pregnant, but there is a small risk she is.
I'm sorry I can't be any more certain, but it's the best idea you're going to know until her next period is due...
I hope it works out how you want it to do :)
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 July 2007):
If you can't be a father, then you can't have sex without contraception. And, if contraception should fail, well, be a man and accept whatever comes. You do want sex, don't you?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (7 July 2007):
 A little suggestion for next time, don't get so wasted then you might remember to use a condom.
Never mind just her being pregnant what about STIs? I would book in to get yourself tested and try to forget about the pregnancy for now or get the lady to get tested to put your mind at rest.
You might be lucky and missed her most fertile time, but I managed to fall pregnant whilst on the pill and using condoms :)
Why do you put you can't be a father?? If you are "grown up" enough to get so wasted you have unprotected sex then you will have to take the responsibilities of your actions!
Sorry if that sounds harsh!
Get her a test and find out for sure.
xxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 You can get pregnant while you are on your period, livehttp://www.region.peel.on.ca/health/hsexual/htmfiles/pperiod.htm
Check this site out and it will tell you all you need to know and then show it to the girl and tell her it would be a good idea to get tested.
Take care.xx.
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