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writes:I have a friend of 7 years whom I have always had feelings for. She often had boyfriends and i hadn't ever had the confidence to ask her out- as she was a friend and didn't want to spoil that. I had been just about to tell her my feelings, having heard she had split up with boyfriend. however, on the telephone call she told me she was pregnant. now, two years later, we are stil in contact, she says she is not entirely happy with her curren man. She also told me she'd had a dream that she splitt with her bloke and came overseas to see me and we got married - do you think she really dreamt it? - If so how would you interpret that? - Or is trying to tell me something?Any advice would be most helpful!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I'm with the ladies. I just want to add something about how I would find out about her interest: I would hint my love very carefully, instead of asking whether she feels something for you. Take this in consideration: it might have been just a dream, after all, and she's a married women with a child, and a friend. You don't want to go too far. When we are in love, sometimes we take gestures to mean what we want them to mean, not what they were really intended to convey. Be careful.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Why not ask her if she thinks the dream could actually happen or not. Tell her how you feel about her and see what she says. The "dream" may be a hint to tell you she likes you.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 She may have had the dream she may not, what i think you need to take from this is she was probably trying to sound you out.
It would be very hard to just come out and say, 'I'm not happy any more and i would love to come over and have a relationship with you, and you take on my child'.
Think about how you feel about her now, and if you still feel for her wether you would be prepared to have a relationship with her and take on her child.
If you decide that would be something you wanted let her know.
Just be careful though that she is not just after a meal ticket, you would have to take things slowly,
Take care.xx.
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