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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hi, I am working in a private firm since past 6 years. I have attained a very good reputation by proving my calibre and dedication towards my work here. I have three strict bosses (father and two sons). Suddenly my boss (father) has started showing his infatuation towards me and asking me to go out with him and some questions which I clearly do not want. I said a clear NO to his friendship proposal (in a polite way) but then also things are not settling down. In fact getting worst day by day. Now I am feeling sandwiched between all my efforts, dreams, responsibilities and this situation. I am having a good relation with one of his sons (my other boss) who wanted me to work for him some days ago when I was about to leave this organisation. I want to give hints to him. will it be helpful? Or what should I do I'm confused?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I agree with flowergirl- if things are that uncomfortable with the father then it might not be wise to make a move for the son. It could blow up in your face. You need to get firmer with the father to back off from you. He should not be making you feel uncomfortable at all. You may have to drop some of the politeness next time you knock him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): Well, since you're not in the USA, otherwise I would tell you to start accumulating evidence(tape recordings, emails, etc.) of his actions of harrassing you.
It seems like something uncomfortable is going on with him coming on to you, and making your life and work difficult.
I know one lady from Wall St. had her boss to come on to her and she nailed him with a $21Million lawsuit, which settled for $14millon.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I think if you are uncomfortable with the situation concerning the father then it might be wise not to say anything o the son, as they say blood is thicker than water and you might find yourself in a very awkward position.
If it is affecting badly then you might consider leaving your place of work and startind afresh, as hard as it may be, but i just think seen as they are all related you might well fight a losing battle.
Take care.xx.x
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