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writes: He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. I know for a fact he hasn't told her that we are together and we've been seriously together for 2 and 1/2 years. I think he still has feelings for her and he still calls her all the time. They talk on the phone 3 to 4 times per day, almost everyday. They also text. message each other back and forth. I love him very much, but how much more can a person take. It's been 2 and 1/2 years and I am still waiting for him to get over her. I don't know what to do? I am getting tired and frustated? He does not know that I know.
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reader, elsie  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 hi there i know exactly how you feel.im out of the woods now but my fella and his ex,they have a son,used to be in touch alot.it wasnt just about their child it was other crap too.he really rubbed my nose in it and unless this guy has got the sense he was born with he must know that hes winding you up.ask him how he would feel or better still start to do the same thing,it doesnt have to be an ex just a male friend maybe??i dont know maybe your best bet is to just blurt it all out.dont hold on to this any longer.it doesnt get any better and it doesnt hurt any less.as you will already know im sure!i had to dish out an ultimatum in the end and it stopped.he used to think nothing of spending 3 or 4 nights a week smoking,watching tv and dossing there using the son as an excuse.youve been humiliated enough darling.good luck.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I agree with KayKay too! Talk to your guy and tell him how it makes you feel! And if he still does it when he knows how you feel, then it's time to kick him to the curb, and find a guy that will treat you better!!!
Good luck!!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Talk to him about how this makes you feel and let him decide who he wants. If he loves you then hearing how talking to his ex is making you feel should make him realise that he needs to get on with his life with you. Speaking to her 3 or 4 times a day would put my nose out of joint too hunni so don't feel bad for feeling like this.
You need to chat with your guy as he may not see he is actually doing anything wrong.
xxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I agree with KayKay totally, if they have no children together than after this amount of time they do not need to talk and text this many times every single day.
Tell him that you know about it and that it makes you feel uncomfortable.
If he has any respect for you he will stop doing it quite as much.
Take care.xx.
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