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writes:I have been hurt in the past by my biggest love/relationship of 7 years, that all ended 2 years ago but since then it's hard for me to give my heart, and it lead me to be promiscuousI met a new great guy now that has managed to touch my heart, but I do still have intimacy fears, he is lovely but I am afraid that at some point I might get back to my old ways and cheat on him.Does it mean he is not the right guy or do you need to wait longer before I know he is the one?I struggle between my values of having a monogomous relationship and my desire of not giving all of myself to just one person. Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 If you're afraid of "your old ways" then it's your problem. If you build someone up in a nice way and then can't make up your mind about whether you intend to be faithful, do him a favor and move on. You could also look into why you have the fear of attachment. When you have true love, it's incredible.
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