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writes:I started seeing a guy from work, we were both in relationships with other people. We both separated from our partners to be together and had a very happy 3 months. He has a 3 year old son who he loves to pieces. He decided he missed his son, and wanted to go back to be with him so returned to live with his ex. At no point did he say he wanted to try again with her. To cut a long story short, she knows about me and he has told her he is in love with me. I do not doubt how he feels for me nor my feelings for him. We have ended up having an affair. He has assured me he will leave her. I know from him and others that he is not happy living there. Should I wait for him or just knock it on the head?
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reader, sunrise +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Hi, he could still have a relationship with his son while seperated! No one goes back to there ex for the sake of the children especially if they are in a relationship outside the marriage that they are happy in, it's hard enough making the step of leaving, but for him to go back with the reasons he says just doesn't ring true.
Are you sure she knows about you? Who told you that he's told her he's in love with you.
If he told you he will leave her then why did he ever go back....cake and eat it spring to mind, He had left her so why go back? think about it, then do what you know you must do, move on and have some fun, doubt he'll like it but tough he cant have it all his way. You deserve to be truly happy, not second best x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Mm, I don't believe he returned to his ex only because of his son, no matter how much he loves him. And then I find it harder to understand that he claims he will leave her, anyways. So, didn't he say he wanted to be with his son?
Maybe he doesn't really know what he wants to do. You might wait for some time; how long, only you can tell. But this situation does not look so right to me.
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