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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, it's quite depressing really, all my best friends have boyfriends but I don't. They spend loads of time with them and I always seem to be left out, I REALLY want one and there's loads of people I like, but they don't like me back. I really want to meet people but I dont know how. Please help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): Hey,
well i know all ur friends have got bf's but believe me, ur young, free and single make the most of it, i went out with a girl last year for 4 months and it was a big mistake, being single is so much fun especially when you are young.
Just enjoy life first before getting into a relationship.
Take Care
x Chris
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reader, Apple Juice +, writes (25 January 2007):
The first and foremost thing is to keep smileing and to be yourself (might sound corny, but it works). You might be surprised but when you say "there's loads of people I like, but they don't like me back" they most probley are thinking the exact same thing. Try not to come across desperate because at 13-15 you probley would scare them off, first try to get comfortable talking to the opposite sex, start conversations, friendships, find out if they are realy the person you thought they were, go out socialy in a group, then hopefully blosom into more
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reader, kenny +, writes (25 January 2007):
Slow down abit, you are still only very young, there is all the time in the world to meet people. relax go out, and have fun.
If all your mates are taken, why not do an activity after school, start a hobby that you enjoy.
Your friends are at the age where relationships don't tend to last very long, so my hunch is one of them will be single soon.
Don't be in a rush to meet someone, your time will come, probally when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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