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writes: just before xmas i asked this girl out. she said she doesn't feel the same and she just wants to be friends now. i still love her, i talk to her everyday on msn. could i casually ask her out on valentines day? i just wanna give it another go. any ideas? we dont talk much in school coz she's always surrounded by her mates but online we talk alot. it's her birthday 2days before! any ideas? thanks,
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reader, cd206  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 Give her a card for her birthday and just a card. You want her to know that you care without appearing like you're trying too hard.
I think it's absolutely fantastic that you're confident enough to give things another try but I think it's too soon after the first attempt. If you want to get it all off your chest why not write something in the card like "Dear X, Happy birthday, hope your day is everything you hope itll be. I want you to know that I really value your friendship and if you ever do change your mind about that date, let me know." Then sign it with your name but don't say love Y. This at least means the ball is in her court and you can relax a bit.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 I do admire your courage for wanting to give it another try, but when a girl clearly states that she just wants to be friends and doesn't feel anything but friendship for you, you probably don't have much of a chance in changing how she feels about you.
You can always give her a congratulations card or a nice birthday present, but be aware that if you ask her out for valentines she might feel pressured and it could put a strain on your friendship.
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