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writes: I met this guy about a month ago, We've already had sex probably two weeks after meeting eachother. I've been on a few dates with him, he usually calls me everyday to say hello and see what I'm up to. Well, I like him alot but the only thing that is bothering me is that he doesn't have a phone for me to contact him. No home phone, no cell phone. I've already been to his home and already snooped for any unusual things like any female personal items or anything like that, Ive also been to his job, and nothing seems to look like theres anything to be suspisious about. I've also asked him when is he going to get a phone he told me within the week or sometime the following week. Am I just overthinking this whole no phone situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, Darlene  +, writes (26 January 2007):
 some people don't like phones they can get bothersome
at times.buying him a cell phone for his birthday
sounds like a good idea.if he is planning to get a
phone anyway he won't mind.just make sure the bill
is in his name or it's a pay as you go.then if you
two don't work out you won't get burned with the
bill.trust me that has been known to happen.and
it sounds like you already have a few doubts.i
hope things work out but be careful.
lots of luck
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reader, cd206  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 It is rare these days not to have a cell phone but I know plenty of people who don't have a phone to be contacted on. A lot of people find cell phones intrusive and don't want one. Maybe for his birthday you could buy him one. To be honest it sounds like you're being a tiny bit paranoid about this whole thing. Not having a phone doesn't mean he's cheating and if he had a wife hidden away I very much doubt he'd take you to their house.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): Well if he is not married and hiding a wife, then he may have bad credit or owe the phone companies money, people get into trouble with cell phone bills and frequently don't pay, that would be my guess, unless he comes up with a phone soon, he may have had to put down a deposit....maybe he is just disorganized and has not gotten around to the phone, did he just move in?
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reader, hopeless_teen_ +, writes (25 January 2007):
Hi
To be honest I think you are being a tad paranoid about this. My first question would be, has he only recently moved to this new home? if so then he may not have had a chance to get a phone yet...
Also, if he's calling you everyday (I assume from a payphone or similar) then it is probably simply down to the fact that he doesn't have a home phone on which to call you.
Wait and see if he does get a phone in the next week, and you need to be more trusting with him. Which it doesnt seem that you are if you are snooping around his home and workplace...
So just wait and see, im sure you are just worrying over nothing hun.
Hope this helped and good luck with the future.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): maybe the reason he doesn't have a phone because he doesn't want alot of phone calls from people and sales people so i hope this helps see you xxx christmas
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