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writes:Okay, so i recently started seeing a guy and we discussed having sex in the near future. I had gone down on him before and noticed that he might have been a bit smaller then my ex boyfriend(whom i had sex with before). Is it possible that my vagina is too loose for my new guy to experience any pleasure? If so, what can i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): do kegels
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 I would have sex first before I worried about if im too loose or not and then you will have your answer if he like Martini had difficulties, Martini has told you what you can do if you do have a problem but I doubt you will, he would have to be very small and unless you have had some children then you are not likely to be too loose.
Have sex and stop worrying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): That IS possible. One of my ex's wasn't tight at all - either that, or my penis at the time was super thin. She was just not good at anything sex-wise. It took me forever to orgasm, often not even.
During sex, you can try to squeeze your vagina together - not constantly, but like a pulse, like you're trying to force pee out. You can also try different positions to see if that helps - eg: lie on your back like missionary, and put your legs up across his chest and over his shoulders. Another way is doggy, but have your knees together instead of apart. Etc.
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (25 January 2007):
 A woman's vagina is very very elastic and can stretch and pull to meet about any guys size. Which is why the girls on the pornos aren't split in two. o.O Anyhoo, I'm sure your vagina isn't so loose that he can't feel an adequate ammount of pleasure. However, if you feel the need to 'tone up', try a few pelvic floor excersices. You can find them on Google. To try a few on for size, when you are peeing, stop your urination in mid-stream, and then let go a bit. Repeat a few times. This can strain your muscles a little bit, so research these excersizes a little more. Note, when doing Kegals, the excersize post-pregancy women are famous for, you'll need to do about 200 to 250 kegals PER DAY to see results. Happy clenching! -Carrie
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