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writes: I have been dating this guy for a month now, problem is we only hang out once a week in the evening, I dont really care what happens when I am not with him like if the relationship is going anywhere, but when we are together I forget everything, as he seems to also and we have an awesome time... I guess I just need some advice of how guys think.. I just think it is weird that we have so much fun then poof he is gone or a week, he does call everyday or so just to say hi, but he says he is busy... Can someone really be that busy to make time for someone that they want to pursue or is this just a have fun thing??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): You don't say how old you two are. Blokes are a lot different from us girls. We like contact and stuff, but they can chuff along without seeming to need any of that. Just let him get on with it for now, but if he continues to now seem to care then sit him down and talk. Get to know what is going on. If he doesn't like that then it is up to you if you want to carry on like this. You do deserve better and if this isn't for you then get rid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): hi
guys are allowed to have there own time to do there own things...u can't expect him to call every single day...i suggest u get your mind off him and spend some time with your friends.....but if it gets worse... ..then i suggest you snap back into reality when your with him and tell him how you feel...if he does act like he doesn't care and that its all fun for him....then i don't think he's right for you
fun is only a part of what makes a relationship...you also need to be able to talk to each other and understand each others feelings
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