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*mpulsy
writes:Ok well the thing is that me and my boyfriend had just started going out. The sweetest guy ever but in the back of my head i thought he was too good to be true so when his ex girlfriend wanted to start talking mess to me about them still being together i totally believed her and dumped my bf.He begged and swore that what she was saying wasn't true and that the only person he loved was me.He begged a lot and i guess he got tired so he just left me alone,but now i'm thinking that maybe he was saying the truth and i want him back i just dont know how to tell him that or if he would even want to go back what should i do?
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Hey, I got your message. :) Ok so maybe she was telling the truth and they are still together. Sorry to hear that. Well the only thing you can do now is move on from him and find another guy who you know for certain is 100% single. Forget about this guy, he wasn't worth it. He lead you on to believe that you were his girlfriend when all the time he was still with his ex.He took you for a fool. Someone who would do that to you is not worth your time. Forget about him. There's gotta be other guys you can date right?
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reader, impulsy +, writes (18 January 2007):
impulsy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell yesterday i was determined to go ahead and apologize to him but today when i got to school one of his close friends told me that they had actually never broke up, yall dont know how stupid that made me feel cuz its like i felt that everyone else knew about this or at least believed what his ex was saying to the point that the dumbass in the story was me. i just dont know what to do or what to think...my heart says one thing and my mind another
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): sounds like you cast asside a perfectly good guy because of a vindictive ex to me.
maybe you should place a little more trust in people next time.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (18 January 2007):
Well just incase he is telling the truth you don't want to miss out on a good thing do you? Can you think of any times where he's been acting suspicious? Can you think of any legitimate reasons why there would be a possibility of him still being with her? If not then I think it's safe to conclude that he was telling the truth and she was lying. Find him in person of if you can't do that give him a call and hope he picks up. Explain to him that you were not sure what to do or who to believe and that you are sorry. You'll have to do it soon before it's too late. There's no time like the present.
I hope it all works out for you. xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Okay, first piece of advice NEVER LISTEN TO EXES. They are sometimes bitter and will lie to get what they want. Your boyfriend doesn't have to forgive you because you have treated him very badly. The only thing you can do is apologise profusely and maturely and hope he does.
CD
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