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writes: Hi everyone this is my first time so i would really appreciante some help !! About 5 months ago i met up with a old school friend who had just split up with her fella we went out for a couple of drinks and she told me about her 18 month old son ( which i have no problem with by the way ). one thing lead to another any we both ended up falling in love, she moved in to a new place and everything was going great but now she is saying that she needs time to herself for a bit and that she doesn't know weather to get back with her ex for her sons benifit, she tells me she loves me and she doesn't love him and i believe her !!!What do i do ? do i sit back give her time and just hope she doesnt go back to him or do i make a point of fighting for her ?????please any advice is welcomecheers KP
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reader, cd206 +, writes (18 January 2007):
Give her plenty of support. Tell her you appreciate that she wants to do what's best for her son and that you totally support that but that you think her own happiness makes up a crucial part of her son's and if she's not in love with him it'd be wrong to go back to him and break up again. However, you need to be supportive if she decides to go back to him. She has to do what's right for the number one person in her life and that will always be her son.
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