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writes:I had been dating a man James for a time and things went wrong we met again and told me he wuld like to be with me if I stayed in town, told me not to worry as he had a nice job so that if I couldn't get a cool job here he would be supportive and asked me to wait after he came back from holidays to start a relationship now I answered his call and texted he couldnt get the phone as a girl called susan was there, I didn't trust him b4 but I had imagined meybe he could be ok for me now if ha was sweet like last time we met, apart from this my ex who dropped with me cos he was only about sex and I wanted to meet him better b4 moving to that is calling me, he is really sexy but I feel not comfy about goinf back to him unless he changes, I also have met a nive bloke on line but feel nervous about meeting and I came across a boy who went to same high school who is texting me asking to date, I do not remember him properly, it's been 10 years since I feel like having a boyfriend but also lost at sea I had convinced myself to give a second chance to James so I was ignorin the ohers an now I see all is a mess and can't stop cryingsorry to mess your head it's difficult to follow me if u have any advise please helpxxx
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 Forget James, he clearly has a girlfriend. He is not the honest type because he is giving you attention whilst with another. He would do the same to you.
Go on a date with old school friend first and see if there is chemistry there. If not, then go on a date with online guy to see if he is the one for you.
What you should not do is carry on with giving hope to more than one guy at a time otherwise you drop to the same level as James.
Which ever guy is the one for you, take it slow as you need to find out exactly what you want and make sure a guy likes you too the same way before going further.
Good luck x
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 Hi Astrid, Sorry to see you're in such a mess but it's not too difficult to get out of this situation. I think you should step out of all the relationships. Take a hard look as to what it is you're looking for in life and love. Spend sometime alone. Learn to love and respect yourself. When you're feeling in touch with yourself again and confident then start dating. Get to know the person and see if they fit into what you want and need before committing to a long term relationship. You can do it if you want! Be strong & take care.
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