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writes:Hi allIm in a great relationship with my bf but have a prob i just cant get my head aroundPreviously he had to travel with work a lot and id see him once a week then not for 3 weeks I found this hard to cope with but things dont seem any better nowHe has moved closer with work and now i can see him loads but i seem very emotional all the time now just wanting to spend all of my time with himIv been crying all morning at work even tho I stayed at his last night and will see him tonight for a few hoursI dont understand why im so emotional all the time when he is here and am not as bad when he is away He doesnt know that i get like this I really dont wanna push him away with my needinessFor info have been seeing him bout 7 monthsCan anyone helpThanks
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reader, Alex706  +, writes (18 January 2007):
I think it may be that the reason you are crying so much isn't because of your boyfriend. Sometimes when you are unhappy with something in your life it manifest itself elsewhere. It's just a guess as obviously I don't know you, but it's worth a try to have a think about your life!
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reader, x-here forever-x +, writes (18 January 2007):
hii
for this problem you should go out with your friends, put your mind to somthing else so you forget about him not beimg there it will be quite hard to not think about him but just do somthing really fun,funny. trist me it will help. x
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reader, Shelley-jade +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Your feeling sad because your thinking about him not being there with you.
Instead of just thinking about not seeing him go out with friends have fun. Just have few nights out go to a few concerts or get creepy movies to watch with your mates and scare each other like mad.
You will soon see how time flys when your not thinking about when he comes home.
my boyfriend is mostly going away 7 -9 times a year for 2 weeks and i know he wouldnt want me stuck at home on your own.
So niether would your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): Hey...Sounds like you're really in love! At this stage of a relationship you can feel lost without your partner there. How about when he's gone you prepare a surprise for when he gets back, such as a present, or a romantic dinner? The key is also to socialise with friends to keep your mind off missing him too much. If you ever feel like crying at work, just keep your mind fixed on the task in front of you, so you avoid thinking about him not being there. And sometimes, think forward! Tell yourself you'll see him soon, and let that keep you happy! Good luck! Cara -x-
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