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writes: i need some help or its goin dowwwnnnn!!..uhm..me and my bf been goin out for about 4 months now..and uhm..when i talk on the phone with him, i tell him all the time that i miss him..but these couple of days..he reply back sayin..i doubt it..or "act like it then"..what is that suppose to mean?..does that mean he's not feelin ne more?..can u help me with some tips to show my bf that i miss him?..please?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): I know how you feel. My boyfriend does the same thing. I've come to learn thought that he's falling deep for you. Hes really starting to fall and love, but he doesnt know how to handle it right now. When my boyfriend did that i was afraid that we were falling apart. But now we are engaged and couldn't be happier. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): Is it when you talk to him your ALWAYS saying how much fun your having with your mates and always going out, etc. He mite be thinking 'she having so much fun in her life and she's so busy we things, she probably wouldnt even care if we werent together'. So basically dont brag about things that mite make him think that your enjoying your life without him.
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reader, lildeesbg  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 I dont think he is losing feelings for you, I think he thinks your losing feelings for him. I dont know how your relationship works...do you see him? or is it only phone communication? If it is only phone communication then i suggest texting him randomly when he least expects it things like "i am thinking of you" or "cant wait to see/talk with you"... If you see him be alittle more effectionate (hold his hand first, give him a big hugs, or write him letters about anything and give it to him). Be creative.
It just seems to me that your not convincing him your as interested as you used to be. Just be alittle more aware of how you act and how sensative he is. You can show your guy how much you miss him in so many ways! just be true to who you are when you express them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): Do you really want to be dating an insecure guy? Guys like that spell trouble for the long and short term. They usually become control freaks, if not already.
How do you show that you miss him? It depends. If it was me, for my girl to show me she misses me, send me a telegram with a card out of the blue with a note "Thinking of you." Or just her actions in wanting to do things with me like sending me a text at lunch "Did you dream of me this morning?".
Basically, anything that shows that she wants to be with/near me is a good sign that she misses me when she isn't with/near me.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 He's insecure about your relationship and taking it out on you. It can probably all be solved by a big gesture on your part to show him how important he is to you. Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (18 January 2007):
 He is showing signs of insecurity. For whatever reason he needs to be reassured but you need to ask him why he is reacting this way rather than speculate.
Talk to him face to face rather than enter into a debate over the phone.
If you have reduced the amount of contact or texts you were sending him, he may feel that you are not so keen anymore.
Difficult on offering tips on how to reassure someone I do not know, hence the importance of asking him what do you need to do to show that you have missed him. He is the best person to tell you that.
His feelings towards you may be getting stronger and he is not sure how to react to it? Try to be supportive and understanding with you talk to him. Be romantic and give him a small gift to show your affection.
Good luck x
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