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writes:rightt iv been realy close with this lad for 2 years now! i like him more than any lad iv ever met and he feels the same!i know hes not just playing me, cause i havnt slept with him yet lol! all his mates know how close we are and that and hes a realy nice lad! however i always find myself normaly txtin, arranging to meet him he rarly does!! why is this!! i beginig to think he actualy doesnt feel the same :( Reply to this Question
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reader, xx-miss-cupid-xx +, writes (19 January 2007):
 Hey x
It's a well-known fact that girls are better at organising things then boys are! But that doesn't mean he shouldn't do it at all.
Maybe you should stop texting him and organsing dates for a while and see if he comes to you.
Play a bit hard to get, boys like that.
Good luck!
Cara -x-
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reader, black_diamond329 +, writes (19 January 2007):
 What lildeesbg says is a good point but that can also work against you as I've found out in the past. Say your guy is quite unsure of himself etc he might think you are loosing interest in him and back off instead of see it as a challenge. The best thing to do is one time you are out just casually drop into a suitable convo, "I mean why is it you never text me to meet up? I almost feel as if you just meet up with me out of a feeling of duty etc" He should realise this is your lack of confidence coming through and hopefully give him the guts to admit to you why he doesn't text you or apologise and do it in future. Don't give him a hard time about it just say it in an almost flirty kinda way like you are daring him to do it for a change.
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reader, lildeesbg  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 What a guy says and how he acts is totally different. Im sure he likes you but maybe he is just not too sure how he actually likes you! Does he like you as a person he can see dating or does he like you just as a friend. IF a guy really likes you he will make time for you no matter what ! Its good that you havent slept with him, keep it that way! I suggest you take a step back and stop texting him and arranging time to spend with him, let him do the work now. He knows your interested...but show him that you can also be a challenge.
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