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writes:hey im 16 and need advice, a girl i have been mates with for 5 years has started tellin people about my private life and telling people that i've been saying bad things about her ( which i haven't) now i'm losing all my friends and i have no one to turn to and to top it all off im getting very depressed as no one will believe me. please help me!!!!!!!!!thanks in advance
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reader, cd206 +, writes (18 January 2007):
 This happened to me when I was a bit younger than you. I ended up going round to her house when I knew her parents would be there and asking her just where she got off telling all these lies about me? She started fake crying and saying that it wasn't lies etc and her mum threw me out but later on my friend called me to apologise, seems her mum had a good talk to her. You need to speak to all your friends individually and ask them why they believe her word above yours and tell them how hurt you are by the way theyre all treating you. Hopefully by being grown up and mature about it you can get people back on your side.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 You could try talking to her alone, she may have reacted weird because there were two of you and she felt attacked, but I have little hope she'll give you a reasonable answer as two why she's behaving the way she is. Was she always such a horrible b*tch?
At least your mate seems to be on your side and maybe you can hang out with him until your friends realize that the things this girl has been telling them are just lies. Did you try explaining to any of your friends that she's lying?
I feel for you, because things like this happened to a friend of mine in high school and she didn't take it very well then either. It's just difficult and saddening, especially when you don't know why a person is doing their best to make you hurt.
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (18 January 2007):
dummyduckling is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have tryed talking to her and she just turned around and started taking the mick out of my mate saying that he's on my side and that he's a backstabber. im in a lose lose situation i really need some help.
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reader, dragonette +, writes (18 January 2007):
Hey duckling,
Why does your friend of 5 years suddenly start telling everybody theses things? Is she angry with you for something? Try to talk with her and ask her why she's so hellbent on making you miserable. It's not easy, but I think this is the only way to get her to stop.
/dragonette
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