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writes:I have a massive crush on my teacher, but I'm 16 (17 soon) and he's a LOT older than me. Problem is, I can't shake it, we spend so much time together at school, and his behaviour towards me isn't normal, and often very flirtatious. We're quite close, he talks to me about his home life, and vice versa, whenever I pass him in a corridor he'll stop me to talk, and all my friends have noticed that he's different with me but we just laugh it off. He just acts like a total guy around me, winking, making sexual jokes, etc.The thing is, I'm really attracted to him, and I'm not sure I can trust myself not to literally jump him in the near future. The other day, he asked me to help him out with something, and we spent over half an hour, just the two of us. Needless to say, my stomach was doing SERIOUS u-turns. Tell me how bad this is and how I shouldn't reciprocate flirtation!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): hmm I was in the same situation a year and a half ago, depends on the guy I guess. my guess is he is a bit a pervert, and well an attention seeker. He enjoys the attention he gets from you. I mean if he is an older man he is probably very flattered and making he most of this new attention. Try not to take ti seriously as hard as that may be, he is playing a game. I have been a similar situation for a long time, only I have spent up to 2 hrs with him alone after school almost every monday and wednesday for a year. I fell in love with him. Send him mixed signals if you're going to be playing games you might as well win
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): It's totally illeagal. Getting involved with this man can jepordize his carrer and most likely ruin the rest of his life. Try to focus your sexual attention elsewhere...
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reader, neeneeuno +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Hi there,
getting involved with a teacher no metter how old you are isn't a good thing always, mixing business with pleasure can get you into a lot of trouble.
Theres always an exception to be made as long as you make sure that you both want the same thing and that you wouldn't be jepordising anything in his life, or yours.
Age should never be a problem..anythings possible and you should be able to have freedom with your felolings..
If you feel the situations right and so does he then go for it..
Bell x
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Its hard to make a judgment without knowing exactly how old this guy actually is, whether he is in his twentys thirtys of fortys, im assuming he's not in his fiftys. Nevertheless it is still wrong for a teacher to flirt with his pupils, and were anything to happen he could get in to an awful lot of trouble.
I know whats its like to be infatuated with someone, you can't stop thinking about them, and the butterflies racing round in your stomach.
Enjoy the good feelings that a crush brings, but don't do anything till you leave school.
Good luck x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Hey, well we all know how awful crushes can be but if you really like this guy try to remember that if anything were to happen between you and him he could lose his job and even go to jail. I'm sure that if you really like him you wouldn't be willing to see that happening so enjoy your crush but know that until you leave school at least, it can't go anywhere.
CD
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