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writes:hi thereI'm a guy n my gf loves to have oral sex.......she just looks for the right time and tells me to pull my pants down......i tell her that i don't like it but still she wants to lick my penis....i feel ticklish and i fear if she bites it....so are there any ways of telling her to stop doing this without me losing her?????
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 It's probably just best to say that sometimes it's not the place for a blow job, and that you aren't all that interested in oral sex. Biting? Ouch. Nibbles and nips, okay, but biting...OUCH, boy! lol Maybe you could tell her how you would like it done instead. The more comfortable you are with sex, the more comfortable your relationship will be. :) -Carrie
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 I sort of know how you feel. One of my exes used to kiss my stomach, but then she started to blow and bite. It used to tickle like fuck and I started to hate it. Now I tense up whenever somebody even puts their mouth close to my stomach. My last ex would kiss me slowly moving down my body before giving me oral. She would kiss my stomach, but I would automatically just tense and jump whenever her lips touched my stomach or ribs. I had to explain to her why I hated it, but she reassured me that all she wanted to do was gently kiss. I started to let her and did start to feel a bit more confortable.I think the fact you don't like oral is probably psychological also. You should take it slowly, try to relax more and start to trust her. Eventually you will probably realise that oral sex is one of the most pleasurable experiences you will encounter.Good luck
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Hey there,
I don't even want to know how old you are. I really don't. But, I'm going to pretend like you're 'of age', all though I think maybe with age you'll grow to like oral sex.
You really need to TALK to your girlfriend. If you're comfortable enough to be having oral sex, you should certainly be comfortable enough to talk about these kinds of things, right? You ought to tell her that you're very ticklish and you get nervous with her teeth in such prime positioning around your penis! Tell her you'd like to just stick to the first couple of bases...
It's your body and she should respect that.
Communication is key!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): i think u should just tell her straigt up cuz if ur not real with her she'll get mad. just be like "baby, i dont want to lose you or anything but i dont want you to give me oral sex anymore, its that your bad at it cuz your not but i just dont feel comfortable" just be real...
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