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The guy I've fancied has a crush on my mom!

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Question - (3 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *eeneeuno writes:

Hi there,

i have an amazing problem, i had a bit of a broken heart, which no one really knows aboiut or what happened and ive had this friend for 3 years and me and him are really close, hes a big business man and i think the world of him.

I really like him and i know he does me as we started something off before that we never quite finished.. but that was over a year ago, then hye met somone and now hes broke up with her.

He's got a bit of a crush on my mum though and although me and her are like best friends that seems to be the problem as she gets jealous if i go near him and says he wouldn't touch me anyway and then claims that she doesn't feel anything for him and thinks he's crude.

My solution was tell him what i think about him and then leave it in his mind but i can't get him out of my head...

What do i do about him and whats the situation with my mum..? It's awful. Please give me some advice and excuse the spelling.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007):

There's no point wasting your time thinking about this man if he has a crush on your mum. As for your mum does she actually know how she feels about him herself. I mean you've said that she gets jealous whenever you go near him but at the same time she says that she doesn't feel anything for him. I think she might be a bit confused about how she feels about him. My advice is that you both get this man out of your lives as he is messing around with your friendship with your mum. Don't tell him how you feel about him because it's going to confuse him even further plus make the situation even more difficult between the three of you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007):

Just a few questions please: What is the age of this man? What is it about this fellow that your mum thinks is crude? How long ago did you break up with the person that broke your heart? Have you ever been sexually intimate with him before? Just need to clarify some details here so we can better answer your question...take care.

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