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writes: Pubic Hair Horror,i am about to have sex with my boyfriend and i would like to know whether i should get rid of my pubic hair or keep itplz helpxxx
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reader, Horsegirl  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Yes. Do what makes YOU feel good/sexy/happy/comforable. It's your body and It's up to you.
All the best.
Horsegirl 3 :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): Aya! I don't think anyone should tell you whether to shave it, trim it, or not. This is really up to you, whether you feel like you want to or not.
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reader, kadey07  +, writes (4 February 2007):
it doesnt need to be completely off, i mean if you shave a couple days before, it shouldnt be bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): im around your age and have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years from the time i was 13-15 which i am now. We have decided to wait to have sex until we are older. we both have lots of pubic hair and neither of us really care. it makes no difference if your really in love. (use protection)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): I say shave it! he'll appreciate it. on the other hand: from the sounds of this story you're very young. I encourage you to wait! you WILL regret the decision of having sex at too young an age and I guerentee you will be with other men in your life time. the younger you start the more chance you have to aquire long term mental damage from this decision because you are not ready yet to deal with the emotional repercussions that follow with having sex prematuraly...
Most likely this guy will lose interest for you after he has had sex with you. I'm sorry to tell you this but he's young too probably and will not respect you the way he does now afterwards...sure, he'll hit it a few times before he splits but he's going to want to experiment and get as "much" as he can for a while i assure you...
WAIT! is my answer to you...I pray for you not to have to learn a nasty lesson the hard way as many do...
If you do, you may end up like the majority of woman out there, blaming thier early sexual start on everything bad they've done since and wont be respected by any good man that would be ready to look at you like a princess...
Hope you find a resulution
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reader, lola manola  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 aha! a tricky one! when i started having sex i was quite nervous about this sort of thing, porn stars are to blame. in my honest opinion as long as you keep it relativley short and neat, boys aren't bothered. when you get more into sex then you can experiment with different styles and such, but at the moment boys are simple creatures, fanny is fanny bascically. be safe and have lots of fun ;) xxxxxxxx
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reader, GonnaWrite4Life +, writes (4 February 2007):
it says you're in the 13-15 age range...and you're going to have sex? i think that should be the first thing you think about before the thought of getting rid of "the hair down there." do you really love him? does HE really love you?
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reader, JulietteElise +, writes (4 February 2007):
 though i feel you are far too young to have sex (and please use protection!), as for female pubic hair, it shouldn't matter for if he really loves you it won't be a big deal. I, however, like to keep mine nice and short, so don't rule out the idea of trimming it back with sissors. There are a couple problems with shaveing, one is that it is rather awkward and you will have to be very carefull (obviously) to be sure you don't cut yourself (i've heard of one horror story where a girl actually cut part of her clit off!! aaahhhhh!). Anouther problem, which you might be aware of already if you shave your bikinie line for swimsuits, is that it will get all bummby with red ingrown hairs and be painfull, and when the hair starts to grow back it can be itchy. Using shaveing cream and applying lotion afterwards might help a bit, but you will still most likely get the bumps. If you want to be bear down there, it would be better to go to a place to get it waxed, though i presume its very painfull (i've never tried). But whatever you decide, just do it to please yourself, and whatever makes you feel good and sexy. After all, if he complains you don't have to let him have sex with you! lol (and you shouldn't have sex untill you feel ready, and are ready for any and all consequences of it, such as pregancy or stds, etc.... if he has tried to manipulate you into haveing sex he is a jerk... anyone who truley loved you will wait... my first b/f did)
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reader, Horsegirl +, writes (4 February 2007):
Thats your decision. If you think It will matter to your boyfriend ask him what he thinks.
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reader, cupidschokehold +, writes (4 February 2007):
 well trim it up.
you know.
dont have a complete bush.. just trim!
mkie
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reader, cd206 +, writes (3 February 2007):
 That's totally your decision. With regards to sex with your boyfriend the only thing that matters is that you're not being forced into doing something you don't want to do and that you use contraception. Pulling out does not work.
CD
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