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writes:I am friends with this lesbian and our friendship is great. We have everything in common and love eachothers company. After spending time together it came to a point that we had sex. This relationship lasted for about a month (she seemed happy) but I would be told she wants to be with a woman through out the month. Eventually we had to stop but she tells me how much she loves cudling with me and kissing me although the passion has died down because of the whole woman thing. She has been a lesbian for 10 years. Is there any hope for a relationship with this person (she is the love of my life) or shall I move on?
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reader, messedup +, writes (4 February 2007):
messedup is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the great advise, but there is a slight problem. I wish I could let it go but its kinda tough seeing that she does'nt back down. For example, she still kisses me on the lips, comes and lays next to me, and continues to tell me how much she loves me with a look in her eyes that is more then just a friend who loves another friend. Its also been brought to my attention that her and her ex girlfriend have seemed to re-kindle their relationship. Now I cant get more then 2 words out of her and she seems to be distant. Im starting to think that I was used to fill an emotional gap and seeing that the GF is back in the picture im no longer needed. NOw im starting to feel a hate towards her which really sucks!!! Jeeesseee Im an emotional wrecK!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): It sounds like she is set on being with women. She may be bi with a greater lean towards women.
It would be hard to be told repeatedly, reminded that what you have with this woman is a fling.
Plain and simple.
I say, let it end and find someone who is going to be there for you emotionally; who is better able to meet all you needs, emotional, physical, mental.
Best Wishes
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reader, cd206  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 Sorry but she's already told you she only wants a relationship with a woman so unless she changes her mind she's not up for a relationship.
CD
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