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writes:do guys honestly find ""bigger girls"" (im a UK size 16) attractive or do u only go for skinny girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, kadey07  +, writes (4 February 2007):
you may not believe this, but guys love curves, do you see any anarexic people in rap videos? no not really. like someone said already, they dont wanna hug a stick.
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (4 February 2007):
 Probably shouldn't be answering this question because I don't really fall into the 'big' catagory. I wear a size 2 in Abercrombie or American Eagle, and sometimes, depending on the style, a zero. Aside from that, I'm flat in the chest (34B), and have like...no butt, lol. I'm only 5'3. I used to be kind of an on-and-off anorexic, but I stopped that. My boyfriend says he loves my skinny body, but when I went on birthcontrol and started eating up everything in sight...I kinda have a belly on me now. My sizes haven't changed, but he says I'm more 'squishy', and comfortable to cuddle with. Babies used to hate when I held them because I was too bony (my collar bone sticks out, still), but now they love me. A little extra meat is flattering. Otherwise your clothes look like they're hanging on a stick.
I guess men really like something pretty to look at, but love something to hold and cuddle that won't put thier eye out with a rib, lol. There are two kinds of men in this world: Those who are shallow and only like the body, and those who love the personality.
-Carrie
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): Hiya...my advice?? most defin8ly!! i was a size 14/16 wen i first met my bf but all of his exes were like a size 8- so i dieted...wel actually i went a little crazy and got down 2 a size 8...we eventually got 2gether n 1 of the 1st things he said 2 me wen we were com4tble enuf 2 talk about out bodies was "girl eat something- ur no fun 2 hang around with,always counting calories and uve got nothin 4 me 2 grab on 2" so i gave in 2 those snikers bars LOLL. Now im a size 10/12- am so happy 2 have my butt n chest back and so is he ;) and now wre engaged :D but he still tels me 2 eat lol n huny size 16 is average in uk- take advice from the stars- beyonce is a real idol and listen 2 akon- he speaks for about 95% of guys "smak that" if your all bone what kud they posibly smak :)
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reader, neeneeuno +, writes (3 February 2007):
 The other day i read that over 55% of men surveyed sit at home and fantasise about Fern Britton. Men love something to hold onto and something to love and cuddle, the most important thing is that you learn to love yourself and anyone will, everyones beautiful in their own way and i bet you are too.
Bell :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): I definitely don't prefer skinny women. I find them too unhealthy. I prefer someone who has a bit of meat - looks healthier. Mind you all of the women I have dated or have been attracted to were quite short: tallest 5-6, shortest 5-2, so their size was proportionate to their height.
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reader, TonyL +, writes (3 February 2007):
we all have our own idea of what we love short tall, fat slim.
my partner is a size 18 and i love every curve she has.
peronality allso counts so come on and love who you are, cause someone else out do as well
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): I have no problem with it, as long as you are wearing the right clothes to go with it. I wouldn't reccommend mini skirts and crop tops at all, but otherwise, I would be fine with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): i think most people find bigger girls more attractive. i'm a size 8-10 and would like to be a 14-16. i just think it looks better, and i know if i was a man i would find that so much more attractive than a rake in clothing! hehe x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): hi,yes physical appearence does matter to a guy,but so does a charming personality.Be confident in yourself and someday you will find a guy who appriciates you just the way you are
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reader, Carina  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Hi! This is a question I asked myself for many years as a size 16. The answer is 'yes'. There are lots of guys who like bigger girls, but they're often too worried about what their friends think to admit it. You'll find as you get older and the men you meet are more mature, you'll have plenty of admirers. The main thing is to keep happy about yourself and not let it get you down. If you accept yourself for what you are and like yourself, then that comes over to other people and they'll think you're great too! Look around you at all the gorgeous bigger women and you'll see plenty of them with gorgeous men. Many men don't fancy skinny girls at all and love big buxom types. Hang in there and you'll meet someone who'll love you for who you are and not for what his friends think. Promise!
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