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writes:My husband will not touch me but I walk in on him every night pleasing himself. what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): Have you ever heard about masturbation addiction?? Its a real thing, and hell for a wife to deal with. Believe me I know. My husband acted unattracted to me for the length of our marriage (10 years), and it has just been in the last few months that the truth has come out. He is now seeking counseling. Good luck.
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reader, neeneeuno  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Then your husbands a fool...
What you need to be addressing is when your husbands masturbating.. he must be thinking of something to get him aroused.. now weather thats a magazine or a girl he saw earlier walking down the street.
What you need to do is talk to him and see why he won't touch you and what get's him so aroused that he can matrobate but not touch you his wife.. This would really worry me as a women.
When you've addressed the problem.. get the solution.. cook a meal. have it on the boil.. wen hes ready to come in get in the shower and have a steamie moment.. kiss him and love him like never before and leave him and tell him that dinner will be ready in 10 minutes..
Then after dinner.. share some cuddles and kisses on the couch.. and snuggle and tyalk about each otrhers day and bugger the washing up.. After an hour or so make a pass at him and slowel make your way up stairs making the odd pass at him here and there..
and the slowely peel away his clothes on the bed.. and kiss him and get under the quilts and play and then make love not have sexm make love..
i hope this helps..
Bell x
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reader, Millyella  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 I don't know if this is a 'normal' situation. Guys masturbate, sure. But as a replacement for sex with a loving wife? Doesn't sound normal to me.
Make your feelings known to your husband. Intimacy is a normal part of married life; if he's choosing not to engage with you then you are right to be upset. It's obviously not his sex drive if he's masturbating every night!
Ask him what the story is, but this doesn't sound good to me.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Offer to give him a hand? Maybe masturbation has just become a habit. Talk to him. I'm sure things can be worked out.
CD
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