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30-35,
*irl In Love
writes:Dear Cupid, I really fancied this guy at my disco, my best friend knew as well, Anyway, we were kissing And dancing and holding hands But then my best friend started getting too cosy with him, dirty dancing and kissing and now they are going out, it really hurts me but when we talk about it she has nothing to say. The guy is a really good mate and he does give mE loved up looks but what can I do? Please Help, it hurts inside.
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reader, Girl In Love +, writes (5 February 2007):
Girl In Love is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank - You Soooo Much Hunees xxx
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reader, TygersDream  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 I don't blame you for hurting! Your BEST friend dates the guy you like, and that guy is greedy enough to play around with the both of you.
Frankly, neither of them are worth it. He's a player, and she has no respect for your feelings.
IGNORE his loved up looks, he's just hoping that you're going to be hurt enough that you'll make out with him again. Don't think he'll dump your best friend for you, he'll talk sweet when she's not looking and the next thing you know he's dating the BOTH of you on the sly. You want a guy to have THAT kind of advantage? Sounds like he didn't have to do much but STAND there. DON"T give him the satisfaction and respond to his 'loved up' looks.
FORGET him. HE's not a victim, and by the sounds of it, he's not a really good mate.
RESPECT, girl. That's the basic foundation of any worthwhile relationship. Don't have an out and out battle with them, don't run around badmouthing them to other people, just stay calm and cool. Get your own life together, "Living well is the best revenge." Study hard, play hard and all that jazz.
You're still 13-15 years old, a better bloke will come around and you'll know he likes you for you when he doesn't make out with your friends.
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reader, cseame  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 If the guy doesn't like this girl and really actually likes you then why hasn't he dumped her yet...you can't blame your friend for liking a guy but you can blame her for not discussing it with you that she liked him to...You have to tell them how much you really are hurting inside and you have to figure out if this guy really does like you or if he is just teasing...if he does like you then you have to ask why he isn't with you and if he sadly doesn't like you then you just have to let it be
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