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I need details...how do I kiss a boy?

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Question - (3 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi,

all my friends are going out with lads and kissing them(snogging) a lad has taken an interest in me but i feel that he'll want to kiss me and i want to kiss him back i just dont know how. HOW DO I KISS A BOY? i need details.

from hopelessly in love

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007):

firstly kissing isn;t all about the mouth, hugging, feeling eachothers bodys pressing against each other is great too and part of it

to begin with just lip kissing is nice, but as you get a bit more confident gently stroke your tongue along his lower lip. this is nice and implies you want more.

you will quickly establish what feels right, your tongue in his mouth, vice versa etc etc, make sure you have lots of little lip kisses in-between big snogs too!

having said all that, being male most of us guys tend to shortcut to the snogging so you may wish to educate him with your new found knowledge!

oh, another thing, i like it when my nose isn;t pressed into the gfs nose, but side by side pressing! (hope that bit makes sense!)

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A female reader, lola manola United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2007):

lola manola agony aunttheres no manual, everyone just has to learn. one tip, dont shove your tongue in, its not nice, open mouth kiss (itl come naturally) and just gently touch tongues. have fun kiddo xxx

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A female reader, xneuroticangelx United States +, writes (4 February 2007):

lol I felt the same way. Don't worry- even if it doesn't go well it will seem like the smallest issue in the world in time to come.

As for kissing, I assume you mean further than a peck. Pretty much just do whatever feels right. If you arn't feeling right or can't keep yourself calm, you might not be ready. Most importantly, DO NOT kiss this guy just because your friends are kissing!

So, anyways, don't shove your tongue down his throat and don't think about what you are doing. Just open your mouth and let it happen. The movements you make should be soft and not forced. So, understand how going with the flow and doing what feels right comes in play? Also, close your eyes and focus on enjoying it, even if it turns out he wasn't worth your first kiss.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntYou can't really explain to another person how to kiss. You just do what comes naturally. You won't believe me now but once you've been kissed you'll understand.

CD

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