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writes: Hello,Well my girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago, after a long relationship, not because of lost trust, or because we met other people, but just because she felt it wasnt the time for her to be in a relationship. We agreed to go completely our seperate ways and not talk/see each other again. For a while i felt ok and started to move on.But now shes been contacting me, and weve been talking a lot. She asked me recently if i thought we should still be together, and says she misses me a lot. Were meeting soon for the first time since the split, and we both agree that it might not be a good idea, but we both really want to so we are.Im confused again, and im just wondering if this looks like it might be a time for starting again, or am i reading too much into it?She knows i still have strong feelings for her, but is there a motive behind this meeting other than a freindly reunion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): Sometimes breaking up can be a chance to make a second impression and start over with a better idea of what you want, there are never any guarantees in love, so if you still have feelings for her, why deny it, put yourself out there, it is the only way to get something great, but just be sure you demand her respect, earn her trust and be a good friend, and passion will soon follow, take a leap of faith.
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reader, VGA  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Well, I say u should meet with her, but, without any high expectations, infact, I don't think u should have any sort of expectation from her. Just meet with her & catch up on stuff & have a good time. After that, if u both realise u've liked being around eachother again, the two of u can maybe go slow.
If she wants to get into a romantic relationship with u again, there shouldn't be any problem, right?
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