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writes: So I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex-boyfriend.. and he's got a new girlfriend.. who he doesn't really like that much. The other night I was really drunk and we kissed for ages.. until he said that he couldn't because he had a girlfriend. I went off my head about that, because he'd been telling me he loved me all night. It's really messing with my head now, and I want to know if he meant it and he just didn't go further because he felt guilty, or it was just some stupid thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): ive bin in the same situtuation keep it cool wif the guy if u come across to keen he will just 4 gt ya butif i were u id move on show him u can gt a new b.f wif no strings clean slate thi guy is a player sorri best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): Hey
He is messing with your head because you are allowing him to. You need to stick up for yourself and not allow him to overstep the boundaries, e.g. no talking about loving you and no kissing you. You, a girl with her self-respect, should not allow yourself to be the "other" women. If this guy really wanted to be with you, he would not be with this other girl. It's as simple as that --- do not listen to his words, look at his actions.
You need to do yourself a favour and remind yourself you deserve far, far better from a guy. Put him behind you and look for someone who will never make you feel second best.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (3 February 2007):
 If he doesn't really like her that much why is he still with her? I hate to say it but it sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Anyone who loved you wouldn't treat you like this. You can't move on unless you give yourself space from this creep.
CD
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reader, neeneeuno +, writes (3 February 2007):
 Dont' text, dont call and delete his number... get him out of your head.. spend time with mates and get sloshed with someone else... But before you do so.. give him the ultimatum...tell him how you feel and what you think would be a good idea to do and remind him of the good times and the passion you feel in each others kisses... and then silence the realationship and if he loves you and it's all worth it then he'll come back to you.. this would be the best option..
at the moment.. he's loving every minute nof it havin 2 women fightin over him...don't give him the satisfaction.. x
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