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writes:I'm engaged to a guy that i have been dating for 3 years and i do love him. But there is another guy. Who i've also known for quite a while and we had a relationship when me and current fiance were taking a break. I love both of them, but I'm not sure if I'm in love with my finace. It's the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
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reader, Dave H  +, writes (3 February 2007):
You really need to decide whos best for you and for the right reason, my mate was in the same situation a while back and he lost both girls when they both founf out-it was pretty funny actually and a lot of arguments were heard.
But in the end he came out with none and didnt hear anything from them, choose the right guy for you-soon before it ends in disaster, make a list off what you really like about them and see which is better, do what ever you want, but make the right decision for you-concerning none of your friends in this process.
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reader, neeneeuno +, writes (3 February 2007):
 You need to make a desicion before a heart gets broken and most probably it will end up being yours..you'll end up losing both..
a lot can happen in three years.. and you need to work out who can you see yourself spending the reest of your life with and who will make YOU happy..
It's all about deciding whats best for you... but emotionally.. not whos best in bed.. who secures you and makes you fell safe, wanted and loved..
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