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Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?

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Question - (31 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2008)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a date but there might be a problem.

I am 20 and she is 17 and still in high school. Is her being still a teenager and still in high school, and me in college, 1 year shy of being able to purchase alcohol going to not allow this relationship to happen?

I know its only 3yrs and it dosent matter THAT much, but you have to place yourself in her parents shoes, will they not see past my age, because i am truly a nice guy who would never take advantage of anyone.

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A female reader, cutebutnot29 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

cutebutnot29 agony aunti dont think there is any problem with your age gap 3 years is nothing really and if you really like her then u should ask her out u never know what happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

age is nothing but a number remeber that and my boyfriend and i our four years apart he is 23 and i am 19 plus btw i am his finace'e message me if you want to talk more privately xoxo Casside Adams

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2007):

kenny agony auntI don't think that three years is a big age gap atal, people still have successful relationships with much bigger age gap than a mere three years. Personally i don't think her parents will mind, i would be very suprised if they had issues over this small age gap. Go ahead and ask her out, and just let the chips fall where they may.

All the best & good luck

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A female reader, LouLee United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2007):

LouLee agony auntI dont think theres a problem with the age gap at all 17 and 20 sounds okay to me. You should ask her out, her parents shouldn't mind x

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