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How do I make him want me?

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Question - (31 December 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im gonna be specific in this question and give detail, im 15, and i met someone a year older than me through a friend, we got chatting and everytime my friend was chillin with me, i would ask him 2 come round aswell, because at first i felt more comfortable having my friend there aswell as the guy i had fell for, me and this guy started talkin and gettin close, and i told him that i liked him, he started coming round more and we got more and more closer each day and soon enough we had our first kiss with eachother, and ever since then he would always come round 2 c me and we would kiss, sit and hug together and he would put his arms around me and tell me i have nice eyes, and he was a 4 real guy, seriously, i felt so comfortable with him , and we both loved being in eachothers company and he would tell me things i wanted to hear and irelli liked him, and he liked me too, basically he sweeped me off my feeet. Anyway everything was goin fine and he slept over and everything, nothing happened, which is why i liked him, because he diddnt want me just for my body, he actually liked me, couple days later i got a phonecall off him and he told me he really hasnt got time for a girl at the minute because hes having problems, and i relli wanted 2 be with him, so i just told him he's gonna realise im 4 real, and he dont no what he's missin, its been a couple of months now and i still 2 this day really like him, i have told him couple weeks back that i want to get with him again because i really liked him and wanted to make things work, i asked him if he still thinks about how we used to be with eachother and he said he does. so what am i supposed to think? one night we was talking over msn and he knew i had somethin on my mind, so he told me to speak my mind, so i did, i asked him if he would ever want to get back to how we used to be, and he said he doesnt no. because he has got close to another girl, but i no he still likes me, and anyone reading this cant understand me because my feelins for this boy are un explaninable, ive never felt this way before, i saw him in town a couple of days ago and we both looked at eachother , we clocked eachothers eyes, and i knew he was finkin about how we used 2 be, i was too, now i want him to be my man, i need a man in my life, and when i saw him in town it reminded me how much im sure i need him and want 2 be with him, i need him to understand how 4 real im being, and i want him so bad it hurts, please please what can i do to make him want me?. what can i do to get back with him, how can i be with him. please give me detailed answers because this is something that is playing in my mind until something good comes out of it!. PLEASE REPLY thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

I totally agree with the previous answer dont ever lower your self to his level you are worth more than that. remember that you are a person in your own right and by saying that you need to be strong for you and not for him get over him and get on with your life show him that you are not bothered by his childish behaviour and are prepared to get on with yout life.

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A female reader, tytoalba United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

tytoalba agony auntsorry, i mean't can't force it upon him

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A female reader, tytoalba United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

tytoalba agony auntJust let him be, you can force it upon him.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYou cant push him into want to get back together, and i have to ask did things start going wrong after he stayed over and nothing happend? Because if so he is probably looking for an easy girl not a girl who respects herself (if not i apologize i hate to class all guys as sex mad but raging hormones cause problems)

I know you want him back but it seems he has moved on and maybe you should too but if you think in your heart that there is a possibility that you can make something out of it then tell him exactly how you feel by letter email and then dont cotact him again and if he comes after you then things can work if not then its time to move on, there reasn you let him come to you is so he can have time and space to think things through, and by not giving him all your attention he can taste what life is like without you at all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

heya, im 15 and i had the same problem with a guy i was dating several months ago. I think from experience, the best thing for you to do is leave it unless he says otherwise because you're just going to appear really desperate and thats not a good look. Thats not saying you can't flirt a little with him, but at the same time, show him you're having fun without him, go out with the girls, have a laugh and show him you're having a good time. If after you do all that for a while he's still not responding, its clear that the guys just moved on and is simply not interested anymore- it happens. So you should do the same, find someone new who's gunna make u as happy as this guy did. Good luck with it babe, happy new year xo luv emz

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