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writes:Hi everyone, Okay so... this is the christmas holidays from school right? but i cant seem to stop thinking about my teacher "/ its so werid i dno wht to say or do anymore.I dont think it is all me however, as he does have his part to play in it, i may be over friendly with him sometimes but certainly does the same back...Okies heres my situation:-well, lately we have been getting closer, like talking more and he has said things to me which have bn so sweet that i am ttoally gettin sucked in by his charm, like 2 weeks ago i had this hairband in and it was so cute and i was lookin in this noticeboard thing and i could see the reflection of myself and i said (it was only me and him in the department) ''awwww i love this hairband its so cute''then he said ''arent you just'' ???i mean??? wht!! okay okay i like him but stuff like this jst make me think sumtimes.Also he was talkin to someone in his office and i walked in to get sumthin and he said ''ohh look at tht wonderful thing... ohh Amy thinks im talkin bout her'' , then i said ''wht? no i dnt'' (at the same i time i was goin bright red) then he said ''i was talkin about myself actually arent i jsut wodnerful and stunning and he was strikin a pose infront of me'' also he said can i ask you something? as a friend or a buddy just not a teacher? and i was like yeah...then he said when you ask me for things Amy you always have think im gonna say no to you, why?and i said , coz your a teacher... i mean you shouldnt do some of the things that you do tbh. And then he said well yeah thats true but i dont like setting boundries for young people and i dont think that i should put things in their way, then he said and i can tell you now Amy that i am always gonna say to you yes, seriously, 99.99% of the time you ask me for anything at all itll be a yes, coz u are my senior pupil and your my priorty.then once i was kindda stressed and annoyed that i had to study for a test and i was totally unprepared fpr it so i was kinnda stressed and he came up to see me and was like ohh hi Amy you okay? and i was like yeah im fine and he said really? coz i could tell their was somethin up with you? well if you need any help really i will help you out, then i said well im jsut feelin a lil bit stressed im studyin for a test just now and then he said hows about i leave this room open for you to come in and study during lunch time? (no1 is allowed in his department tho durin lunchtime- as said by the headteacher) and i said wont you get into trouble for tht and then he said i will write you a note and you wont get into trouble then he said coz i wont be here you see im goin into town so youll be here yourself then he said wait a minute actually i will forget town ill stay here so you wont get any hassle from the head teacher about sittin in here and i was like it doesnt matter im fine i might not be around at lunchtime i got some where to go, then he was like well if your bk then u can use it if not tht dnt matter, then i said ohh cmon sir? jsut go into town i feel awful that your doing this for me, i mean i probs wont be here? and he said it doesnt matter, look i wnt you to have the facility ok your stressed and im concerned so jsut stay okay please??was tht not a bit too over friendly tho for a teacher???im confused about this guy, i mean i know i can totally be over firendly with him sumtimes but cmon im a teenage girl im full of fun and i liek to carry on sumtimes he should know that so why doesnt he try to adviod me of infact ignore me or tell me to go away, like the last week of skl was amazing, me and him became so close we sat and talked for loads time and it was as if time didnt matter, me and him sat and played baseball with an empty bottle and a scrunshed up piece of paper, i mean cmon if this was any other teacher they would of jsut told me to go away or to get away and to do my thing, its werid lol can u help me out im confuddled about this guy!!! i dnt actually knwo wht my question is but if you could read it and jsut give me sum advice on this situation anyways tht would be greatxx
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady +, writes (3 June 2009):
Omg... jesus. Wow, this teacher... is highly.. HIGHLY innappropriate. He is attracted to you, and is behaving in a way that he can that obvious to you. He will say yes to you 99.99% of the time??? what's that supposed to mean? I don't like how this man sounds at all. He sounds a hell of a lot like a sexual predator; infairness you're 18 so possibly a little older than usual sex pred targets but that said; still very very odd. I don't like how he speaks to you at all, he is obviously a very strange man and that rubbish about bounderies? Absolute bollocks, he doesn't even know what he's talking about. Sounds to me like he's on a mission to befriend or possibly more. Be friendly, etc... but: if he starts touching you, or staring at you etc... then back away fast, coz he has sinister intentions.
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Altough it does sound a little over friendly. I think it's really sweet, it sounds like he's a really close friend. He may actually feel something more than he should. I say keep being his friend and spending time with him and enjoying his company. Then when school ends and if you are stilll in love with him then tell him and see how he feels. Did you say you loved him? I don't remember oh well you do now! Joking. Ok well i don't know if that was of much help. But good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know i consider him as a friend really than just a teacher and believe me their is alot more i could tell ya that would change your opinion on this dude, n i dnt want to get him into trouble as what can i say im in love with the guy so im liking all of this attention really lol :P but... all i am sayin is, although i like him does it now seem as if he is being too friendly for a teacher like, does he know i like him or... i dno but basically is he being over friendly for a teacher?
i would never tell the headteacher on him , unless he done sumthin terrible but i doubt he would do that.
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