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anonymous
writes:hi i really need your help!my marrige broke up last year and since then iv met this lovly man iv been with him 5 months now and hes had to go away to work and comes back every weekend . now the first time he went he came stright back to me and we had the best time ever im really starting to fall for this man big time!!then he gos away again for work and iv not heard a word from him since. iv tryed e mailing him and sending a letter to his house still not a word .i cant help but wounder whats happened?do you think hes dumped me ?we got on very well he made big plans for us so i no he felt lots for me he seemed very sincear and honest and told me lots about himself deep stuff you no things you only tell people when you love them .now we never said the love you thing but it was on the way i just new it!what do you think i should do now is it over ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): sorry iv not only seen him once iv been with him every day that hes not been in work and that was 3 to 4 days a week i just dont understand why it has come to this as it was so real!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): Probably.
I think you met him at a time when you were emotionally vulnerable and he told you a lot of nice things, which made you become more attached to him.
If you have known him five months but only seen him once, I think it demonstrates that he was never really all that sincere. Some men will do that.
As Penta says, if he really wanted to be with you, he'd find a way to do it, come "hell or high water."
Forget him.
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reader, penta  +, writes (21 August 2007):
 If he wanted to be with you, he'd work to be with you. So yes, I think he dumped you, in a very cowardly way. If this is how he communicates, you're much better off without him.
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