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Webcam Sex! My bf wants this and I'm not sure..any advice?

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Question - (21 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi! Me and my boyfriend currently live a little way away from each other and at the moment our sex life is just cyber sex. He wants me to have webcam sex with him but i havent had much sexual experience and so am nervous about doing this. How do i tell him i dont want to with out upsetting him and if i do consent to doing it is there any advice u can give me about webcam sex?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

I would also say if you go along with it, there is also a chance he records it and then it could end up on the Internet at some point in the future. Only ever do something like this if you have a very close relationship over a long period of time. Considering your age, I would suggest that neither of you are in a secure enough committed relationship to do something like that.

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A female reader, i do anything to help United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

i do anything to help agony auntI can understand that you don't want to do this and if he likes you as much as he says he does than he should understand.

You should never do anything that you are not comfortable doing. You are young to and he shouldn't really be asking you to do this.

Talk to him and say that you are not comfortable about having webcam sex if he keeps asking and saying oh come on than be obviously isn't worth bothering with.

Don't let him bully you into doing anything that you don't want to do. Otherwise he has a hold on you and he will be telling you wot to do from now on. BE YOUR OWN BOSS. stand up for yourself and say no. hope things so well xxxx

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