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writes:Hi I'm 19 years old and have been seeing a married guy from work but not for sex really.He has been giving me lifts from work since I started about 7 months ago and we started calling for a drink on the way home. On a couple of occassions we talked about sex and fantasies. To make this short heres the bottom line - he really wanted to have a girl pee on him but couldn't bring himself to talk about it with his wife. I eventually agreed that I could do this. It was fine but now I've got a boyfriend and this guy just keeps making arrangements saying its only harmless fun. I think that I would have to expose him in order to get him to stop but then that would cause me problems as well. What should I do to stop him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): Hi Just to thank you both for answering and of course you are both right and i probably knew that and it is more confirmation than anything.
If i tell my boyfriend i think that would be the end, but I will be firm with the married guy.
Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): Agree with hlskitten. This married man feels entitled to having his fun jollies, while using you for that purpose. How degrading for you. You have a right to be living a peaceful life without harrassment. Take a strong stand and tell this guy, if he doesn't back off, that you will call the police, which will likely involve his wife knowing the whole sordid story. I also suggest you come clean and tell your bf that you had a short fling with this married man and that you regret what you did and learned from it.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (21 August 2007):
 Hi
Get a lift off someone else, then ignore him.
Hes taken advantage of you basically. How smarmy.
Might be a good idea to tell your boyfriend the truth. I expect he will be shocked, i mean, the guy from work had a wife. That doesnt make you look too crash hot, but this guy from work might cause problems so i think you should come clean.
Of course its harmless fun, im sure his wife would agree!
Good luck.
C xxxxxx
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