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How can I trust my fiancee when she said she loved someone else?

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Question - (21 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2007)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my fiancee admitted that she loved another guy, but now feels that it was a mistake. can i trust her and in forward with her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007):

If my fiance told me he loved somebody else I would first be shocked, then I would be depressed, then I would cry everyday. Eventually I would wipe my tears, I would pick my head up and hold it high, I would stop answering his calls and in the end I would just MOVE ON.

Right now, grieve all you want. What else are you supposed to do? What she said/did is very hurtful. But NO she is not the one for you.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2007):

kenny agony auntLove is a very stong word for her to use, its different if she said fancied, or had a crush on, love is a completely different issue altogether. You can't just love someone then all of a sudden not love them as quick as that. I would make absolutely sure about the situation here before you proceed forward, and try to accetain from her if she meant love, and not just crushed on.

Good luck

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A female reader, RebeccaT  United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2007):

Yes im sure it was justs a crush and if it wasnt she soon noticed that she loved you and snapped out of it.

Give her anuther chance.

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